Oprah:
Are there moments when you step back yourself and you are amazed by your own ...
Barbra:... Achievement? I do it every day, and that, I think, is wonderful about growing older, is appreciation for the miracle of existence, of life. I thank God every day. I also do believe that belief and imagination manifests reality. And therefore, even though it took twenty-five years, I did find the house, eventually, and the man I could live with.
Do you know what happened to me once? Deepak Chopra once gave me a book that I didn't get a chance to read. And I come to New York, and the New York apartment had boxes of flowers. My bedroom was pale blue with off-white. So the flowers that I planted outside this room could only be powder blue, off-white, and there were many pink touches—pink with the blue and white flowers...
Oprah:
I know there was no orange there.
Barbra:
No orange! So I called up the girl who used to get flowers for me when I arrived in New York, and told her to plant the flowers on the terrace, right? I come to New York, and the flowers are rust-colored mums, and yellow.
Oprah:
(joking) Oh my goodness. Where is that girl today? (audience laughs)
Barbra:
Well, it was awful. How do you look out the window? Rust and yellow mums outside this pink and blue room, right? I couldn't kill them, I couldn't destroy them, I couldn't throw them out. So I just closed my lace curtains so I didn't have to see them. So, my friend Cis was sitting in the chair and she peeks through the lace and she says, ‘Oh, you changed the flowers.’ I said, ‘No I didn't.’ The flowers—the rust color had faded to pink, the yellow had faded to white. So, now I call up the girl who planted them and I said, ‘What is this, a new variety of mum that changes colors?’ She says, ‘No they're just ordinary mums.’ And I called Deepak. ‘How is this happening? What happened? How can this be possible?’ He says, ‘You haven't read my book yet. Look at chapter fourteen.’
Oprah:
Don't tell me you manifested the color?
Barbra:
Well, the chapter was called “Desire.” And I knew I had a strong will-power, I have a strong will-power. He said, Because you wanted it.
Oprah:
You don't think maybe the sun had something to do with it?
Barbra:
Probably. Whatever! I think there's something so powerful about the will, about desire. And it's not ruthless. It's not where you hurt somebody to get what you want. It's very quiet. It's very inner. It's a strength that's deep in the core of your being.